fixed bug when configuring xlets which don't exist (e.g., autopatching and broken objects loaded with connections to others)

quick fix for gatom attempting to move its xlets before it creates them (it still tries to do that on the C side, but we just ignore it in the gui)

*fixed cosmetic regression where highlighting of the number when focusing (and reverting focus) was not consistent due to faulty optimization that has now been removed.

*added legacy behavior for key* family of objects where autorepeat is observed (just create an object with an optional argument of 1)
*fixed bug where gatom after pressing return should not stay focused
*fixed bug where gatom's number after ctrl+click should not turn selected
*offered ability for image and others to ignore clicks and pass them below (measured by a zero width, only works for single inlet/outlet objects as otherwise their multiple inlets or outlets will be truncated to the same spot)
*reenabled ability for cnv to pass clicks below and reflected this in the official help file (separate previous commit)

*updated ggee/image to make it capable of ignoring clicks as it should, added new features, like gopspill_size and click, updated its help file to reflect this.

More fixes to the Debian packaging.