copy Gem dependencies to bin/ so they get loaded properly. (Might think about using `mv` instead of `install` to cut down on unnecessary copies)

don't build wiringPi
don't run dpkg-architecture
remove reference to AppMain.tcl

fix bugs that were keeping the dmg package from building (leaving out the license for now because it relies on outdated Carbon libs)

* add flag for compatibility with older OSX versions
* change library paths in script so that external dependencies are found
* build with jack support

tried this in 743c53eb but forgot add the changes there

Add missing dlls to Windows installer, add dynamic lib extensions for Windows and OSX to scripts/load_all_binaries.pd

* fix typo introduced into tar_em_up.sh
* remove flext and rtcmix from LIB_TARGETS
* selectively compile disis classes on Windows
* use Program Files (x86) for win64

first shot at setting up the correct libs for Gem (have to put them in build/bin so that the dynamic loader finds them)

port agraef's commit from Pd-l2ork: Add arduino folder to the tarball installer. commit 8c75a53e66cba080776ac6ff5b5be01da92172ee

port agraef's commit from Pd-l2ork: Make 'tar_em_up.sh -B -n' do the right thing, by moving the extra staging done by 'make deb' into a separate 'debstage' target. commit 73bf25e1dd5bd2dd37e04e7e163855d440542e43

port bccbccc9bb53cdc7f2e5238345f69fd754507595 from Pd-l2ork: finally fixed control file for both pre and post 15.10 Ubuntu due to libgsl

port b39417b3d4676fb3275aa31be934fe776718504c from Pd-l2ork: experimental improvements to the Linux build to make it compatible with Ubuntu 16.04