shorten lyonpotpourri to lyon in Makefile to match the new submodule name (which itself was changed to match Pd-l2ork)

These bugs were discovered via static code-analysis
https://scan.coverity.com/projects/pure-data-pure-data
(The CID numbers are the "Coverity IDs" used to identify the various bugs)

- Don't free binbuf within glist_readfrombinbuf (CID:74871)
- it must be deleted by the caller
- Initialize sockaddr_in (CID:74861,74862,74863,74866)
- Initialize indelay/outdelay (CID:74864,74865)
- Initialize device-arrays (CID:74853,74854,74855,74856)
- Closing unneeded sockets (CID:74827)
- Initialize sockaddr_in (CID:74860}
- Close file-descriptor if the soundfile is unparsable (CID:74822,74823)
- Close file-handle in cleanup (CID:74816)
- Call va_end() when handling variadic args (CID:74872)
- Added missing break (CID:74800)
- Prevent NULL-dereferences (CID:74792,74793)
- Size checks when copying into string buffers (CID:74844,74845,74846,74847,74849)
- Freeing no-more used storage (CID:74832)
- Fixed code block (CID:74806)
- Initialize sockaddr_in (CID:74860)
- Initialize array-values to 0 (CID:74867)
- Free allocated memory (CID:74813,74830)
- Removed allocation of unused memory
- Use pd_free() to free templates (CID:74814)
- template_free() does not free the entire structure (it misses the pd_new() part)
- initialize variable (CID:77865)
- Prevent NULL-pointer dererencing (CID:77864)
- Free heap-allocate binbuf after use (CID:74833)

we just hide the "apply" button

tried this in 743c53eb but forgot add the changes there

Add missing dlls to Windows installer, add dynamic lib extensions for Windows and OSX to scripts/load_all_binaries.pd

* fix typo introduced into tar_em_up.sh
* remove flext and rtcmix from LIB_TARGETS
* selectively compile disis classes on Windows
* use Program Files (x86) for win64