first shot at setting up the correct libs for Gem (have to put them in build/bin so that the dynamic loader finds them)

The old path was /usr/local/bin, but I think Hans was manually adding the dlls there. If not we can use an ifdef to set this specifically for use with msys2

comment out some dlls for building on Windows with msys2 (we'll see if it turns out we need them later when testing)